my 2c. I have a Galaxy, it's great, does what I want, and can display what I want when I am at the 'desktop' (widgets). On the flip side, iOS is simpler, cleaner and more straightforward.
IMO the galaxy has a bit more customisation points, but I've had various issues. iOS is easier to use. So unless she's/someone is a turbo-nerd I would be inclined to go towards Apple, more easier to pickup for the average jo/joe IMO.