Zimbabwe88 - There have been two main pieces of advice in this thread;
(A) chuck in a cheap used auto trans.
or
(B)do an engine and trans swap with the m54 I have in my parts car.
I cant afford the money or time to do the m54 swap, much though I would prefer it.
So I will be buying a cheap used auto to swap in, and while I try and scrape some money together to buy one I am flushing the one I have to get a month or two's usage out of it.
I already had bought a bunch of parts (the day before the trans crapped out ironically) to do some planned maintenance on my car, so am doing them at the same time where it makes sense to do so.
I really DO value the advice from the community.
I even had one member (who I had never met in person) offer to come and look at the car the very next day.
I've had offers of free or discounted parts, and another forum member has spent several days helping, including driving to Albany to pick up parts while I'm at work.
This community has really blown me away